Evitism™

Definition of 'Evitism'

Evitism (noun) — from Latin ēvītāre, “to avoid.”
Pronunciation: /ˈɛvɪˌtɪzəm/ — EH-vi-tizm (stress on the first syllable).

A culture-wide pattern of normalized avoidance that prevents repair, emotional honesty, and real connection.

It’s the reflex to protect comfort instead of facing discomfort — the habit of ghosting, over-boundarying, and “self-caring” our way out of growth.

Evitism spreads socially like contagion, fragmenting relationships, communities, and institutions — society. Until avoidance becomes the invisible operating system of culture.

At its core, Evitism is the avoidance pandemic — the hidden logic behind modern disconnection, loneliness, and collective incoherence